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Where to Find Help for Serious Breastfeeding Challenges
Kristin used many resources to help her with her breastfeeding challenges, starting with several lactation consultants. In the podcast, she mentions that not every lactation consultant is an IBCLC and was therefor not necessarily qualified to help her with her serious breastfeeding issues. So what is the difference between a lactation consultant and an IBCLC? IBCLC is only one set of lactation qualifications, and there are many others as well. So how to know if a certain lactation professional is qualified to help you?
*Things are changing in the United States with regard to the lactation profession. At the time of this podcast release, Rhode Island and Georgia require licensure in order to practice as a lactation consultant and licensure requires the IBCLC designation; in other words anyone in these states who calls themself a lactation consultant must hold the IBCLC designation. Many more states are in the process of requiring licensure for lactation consultants.
Where to Find Donor Milk
It wasn't very long ago when the only alternative to a mother providing her own milk to her baby was commercial infant formula. Those days are clearly over! Informal peer-to-peer milk sharing is a common topic on these podcasts and one we really delved into on podcast #16. In this podcast episode, Kristen shared a couple of other sources of donor milk as well. Let's take a closer look at some of these options:
Nonprofit milk bank: Donors are screened for dangerous illnesses and medications that may be passed through the milk The milk is handled under sterile conditions, pasteurized and tested for bacterial growth. This milk is safe for very ill and preterm babies, and these babies are prioritized to receive banked milk. If milk from a nonprofit milk bank is available, it is very expensive and unlikely to be a long-term option for many families.
Informal peer-to-peer milk sharing: Donors are not formally screened nor is there any testing of the milk; however a trustworthy donor nursing her healthy baby is often screening enough for families in need of milk for their baby. No money is exchanged except to pay for supplies such as milk storage bags.
Cross-nursing: Cross-nursing is very similar to milk sharing except baby drinks the milk "straight from the tap." Rather than express her milk and provide it do the family in need to deliver to the baby via an at-breast supplementer, finger-feeder, or bottle, cross-nursing involves one parent directly nursing the child of another.
Warning: Please do not confuse any of these with for-profit milk banks, milk purchasing, and milk selling all of which have safety or ethical concerns.
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